Wednesday, 30 January 2013

Snippets

Not too much to report, but just a little note from St. John's for you all!
We are still stuck in a bit of a cold snap, but anticipating 7 degrees tomorrow and lots of rain and fog.... I've been looking forward to it all week.
Our little moms group is meeting up again tomorrow... something I also look forward to on a weekly basis! It started with a few mamas from our little church, but is growing and is very enjoyable. A lovely way to spend a Thursday afternoon- with a cup of coffee, a cookie or two, and some good company.

I remarked to Brian the other day that this was his 5th Newfoundland winter, and my 4th. This summer I will have lived here for 5 years! It's the longest I have ever lived in one city besides Grimsby. London for university was shorter than that, and also I left every year for 4 months- usually for treeplanting, then for Victoria. It is nice to feel settled in a place. Chances are high that we will be moving onward when Brian finishes up his PhD, but that will be at least another year and probably closer to two. So, we may as well keep putting down roots. Speaking of roots... I am already looking forward to planting our garden again this year.. and to actually be present for the early stages of growing. Last year we planted everything the night before we left for BC for a month, so this year we'll be able to tend to the wee little plants a bit better.

I haven't been taking very many pictures lately.. Bronwen is increasingly more difficult to capture in a picture, though I keep trying of course! And since I have been working on the weekends, we haven't done many fun outdoor pursuits (plus it has been too cold and windy to take a one year old out there). So I'll just put up a couple from the archives, for old times' sake...

Valentines Day 2011. Pound cake with custard and strawberries, yum!

mmmmm

a picture from some of the engagement shots I took of our friends Alex and Adrienne,
spring 2011.  They are expecting their first baby this May!


Monday, 21 January 2013

The wearing of the cloth

Bronwen at about 2 weeks old, modelling her 'clementine' coloured diaper...
The last few posts have been strings of newsy pictures.... meant to update everyone on our happenings in life lately.  I haven't really done a lot of writing, and one of my purposes of having this blog was to be able to write about whatever strikes my fancy. Not that it even has to be of interest to those reading... just whatever is on my mind.

I have a whole string of blogs that I read, despite trying to keep the list down to a minimum. I regularly go through and delete the ones off my 'blogroll' who no longer seem relevant, encouraging, interesting, or any of the above. But the truth of the matter is, I love to read about how other moms do things and those are some of my favourite ones! (besides 'real-life' good friends, of course :).

Lots of mothers seem to talk about how they do things, so I thought I would write a little blurb about cloth diapering. Because, honestly, I am really glad that we made the decision to use cloth diapers in our house! (this post may be very boring, but no one is forcing you to read it ;)

I would say that probably about 40% of the moms I know here in St. John's use cloth diapers. This surprises me still, because when I was pregnant with Bronwen and considering our diapering options, I didn't know anyone locally who used them. My primary inspirations were my 2 sister in laws, Krista and Janine. But since then, all sorts of cloth diapering mamas have been coming out of the woodwork!

Brian and I were on a trip to New Hampshire for one of his engineering conferences in summer 2011 when I made the definite decision to use cloth diapers. I had a lot of time on my hands, and so was wandering the streets of Portsmouth, New Hampshire. I stumbled upon a cute little baby store, and they sold the cloth diapers I was interested in as a result of the limited amount of research I had already done- Flip diapers. The owner of the store was kind enough to have a long discussion with me about which diapers (and there are MANY different kinds) would be good for us based on the climate here, how much work I wanted to put into it, and the amount of money we wanted to spend.

I chose the Flip diapers because they are easy to use, well made, a good price, and cute! The cover is made of a waterproof material and is separate from the insert. The insert is made of microfibre, with a 'microsuede' side that faces the baby, so they don't have to feel all that wetness. When the baby pees, you just change the insert out for a new one. And when they poop, you only have to change the cover if it gets dirty (which happens a lot before the kid starts solids, but not much at all after they are eating solid foods). Cloth diapers have come a long way from the white-tea towel like diapers I remember my mum carefully folding for my brother and fastening with safety pins!

We just put the dirty diaper parts in a white plastic pail with a snap lid. It does stink when the pail is opened, understandably, but otherwise there is no smell. When the pail is full, it's time to do laundry! I currently only have to wash diapers about every 6 days, also because Bronwen is learning to use the toilet a little bit (that's a whole other post!). When she was younger, it was every 3 or 4 days. But the washing routine is relatively easy... rinse on cold, then wash warm, with special diaper detergent. The inserts go in the dryer (or outside in the summer) and the covers air dry. And you're done! I figured since we were washing diapers anyway we may as well use washcloths instead of wipes too, so they go in the same pail and are washed the same way. It doesn't bother me at all that we wash diapers in the same machine that we wash our clothes in. They are rinsed well first anyway in the rinse cycle, so I don't think it is really an issue.

And that's it! What do I like so much about cloth diapers? Well, I never have to buy diapers (except when we go on trips, so I don't have to wash them in other people's machines/ carry around the dirty ones). The initial set-up cost was $225, and I would have spent a lot more than that on disposable diapers by now! (a pack of 20-30 diapers is about $10, at least, depending on the brand). I have been keeping track of every time I do a load of diapers and we are well over 1000 diapers used by now (24 diapers for every load). So that is at least $500 worth of diapers for Bronwen's first year alone! We went on several trips last year so that means we used the cloth slightly less, and the diapers we used on these trips were often bought for us or a baby gift from when Bronwen was born). Cloth diapers can also be used for multiple children, meaning that the start-up costs are less and less! (depending on if you need to increase your diaper stash or not).

I like that our garbage can is not full of diapers and wipes. Disposable diapers get very stinky and heavy when they sit around. I also like that I don't have to put Bronwen into a sweaty disposable all the time. Some brands can hold a massive amount of waste, and it turns into a gel substance.. which gets sweaty and yucky feeling against the baby's skin. Who really knows what chemicals are in there as well to make that super absorbency possible!

Cloth diapers are also cute! They come in all sorts of fun colours (see below). They are easy to use once you get the hang of them, and the laundry part is really not so bad after all. To be honest, of course it would be less work overall to put disposables on your child, and I am not faulting those who do so! There are a lot of decisions when you are a parent and everyone has their reasons for their choices. But, the cloth diaper choice has been a good decision for us for the reasons listed above.

And there you have it, cloth diapers in a (sort of) nutshell. More parenting/ kid-related posts to come.. any ideas for me?


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here are the diapers which we use...




Thursday, 17 January 2013

More birthday celebrations!

Bronwen was born exactly one week before her daddy's birthday. So yesterday, we got to celebrate another birthday in our house. Happy birthday Brian! It's fun to have some birthdays in January, as it can be a bit of a bland month otherwise.

I went on a stealth mission on Wednesday night to borrow a waffle iron from a friend... and so was able to surprise Brian with waffles for his birthday breakfast. They actually turned out pretty well, considering I don't think I've ever made waffles before. Nice and fluffy! I beat the egg whites separately before folding them into the batter and that seemed to make a big difference. We try to keep our small-kitchen-appliance situation to a bare minimum for simplicity's sake. It is easier than having all these little appliances that only do one thing and take up precious counter/ cupboard space (like a waffle iron!) So it was a nice treat to have something different for breakfast.
The birthday man himself, with birthday breakfast

Waffles were a hit with the young lady. She ate 2.! And some raspberries and milk.

Yum! (do you like our tablecloth, Mom Claus? :)

Awesome man-apron from Mom and Dad Claus! Every man needs his own apron.

Bronwen modelling her stylish and cozy Padraig slippers... thanks Grandma and Grandpa C!

We dropped Bronwen off at our friend Tonya's where she had a lovely evening. Then Brian and I went downtown on a birthday date! We went to one of our favourite pubs, Nautical Nellie's.
Brian with our appetizer.. fresh steamed mussels! YUM!
They were absolutely delicious.
Wednesday is Mussel Night so we were in luck. 
Our delicious dinners. Brian had fish and chips (with dressing and gravy!)
and I had a grilled chicken sandwich on a homemade bun.
Fried and yummy and satisfying!
To top it all off we went to Rocket Cafe, another one of our
favourites. Tea and espresso and delicious trifle.

Sunday, 13 January 2013

Birthday celebrations!

This series of pics makes me laugh so I thought I'd share...

Hey, it's my birthday... really??

What's going on over there??

Ok mum, enough with the pics!! (this seems to be a foreshadowing for future preteen pics? haha!)

It's.... so... interesting...


Who needs family pictures, I just want to touch this cake

mmm, tastes amazing!
gotta get every crumb...

My new birthday blocks from Grandma and Grandpa Claus




Wednesday, 9 January 2013

One year!

one of our very first family pictures. A VERY fresh baby, tired mama and proud papa!
Our precious Bronwen Elaine is one year old today. It's hard to believe that a year ago at this time, I was in labour (to be very specific, I was probably in the bathtub of my hospital room working my way through each contraction as they got increasingly stronger!)

At 2:21 pm she came into this world... crying and pink and eyes wide open. "It's a girl!". Funny, I think that if they had said she was a boy I would have been surprised. By the end of my pregnancy I was mostly convinced that there was a girl in there.

a couple hours old.. cross eyed and pink and fresh!
On a child's first birthday, they don't really realize much about the fact, but I think that it is more of a milestone for the parents! The end of the first year of parenting. Of figuring out what to do with this little squishy lump you brought home from the hospital, gingerly strapping them into a car seat and having them be entirely your responsibility! Moving through sleep deprivation, hormonal roller coasters, figuring out breastfeeding and when the little human sleeps and eats and cries and poops. Going from only breastmilk to mushy fruits to whole pieces of beef! (a progression that happened pretty fast for our little gourmet, she even likes smoked oysters and pickled herring-- must be the Claus genes). Sneakily moving off her playmat to rolling over, sitting, crawling, standing, walking, almost-running!

It's been a wonderful year. Though I don't really get to sleep in anymore ever, though our house is often a mess, though we can't just go out spontaneously in an evening and everything just takes a lot longer... these things are so, so minor compared to the JOY that Bronwen brings to our lives. It is amazing to watch her grow and exhibit her unique little personality.. she is a little fireball sometimes! A little independent lady.

Bronwen, we are so blessed to be your mum and dad, and we are excited to keep going in this fun journey of raising you! Here's to your second year, and however many more God blesses us with you after that.